[NewFeature]Support dp multi api server && Fix some bug in mixed ep && merge develop (#3598)

* [Feature] update ep

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix queue ports idx

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* Update engine.py

* fix ci

* fix some bug in mixed ep

* add server fix and op fix

* rm some log

* fix code style

* ltd fix

* fix

* fix

* fix some bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix style

* Update config.py

* Update splitwise_connector.py

* Update cache_messager.py

* Update __init__.py

* merge and fix

* Update engine.py

* Update common_engine.py

* Update run_ci_xpu.sh

* Update ernie_processor.py

* Update ernie_processor.py

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Co-authored-by: ltd0924 <ltd0924@sina.com>
Co-authored-by: ltd0924 <32387785+ltd0924@users.noreply.github.com>

scripts/run_ci_xpu.sh

@@ -92,6 +92,8 @@ if [ ${exit_code} -ne 0 ]; then
     exit 1
 fi
 
+sleep 5
+
 #0731新增kv block集中式管理相关测试，在起服务时启用对应环境变量 export ENABLE_V1_KVCACHE_SCHEDULER=True
 # 起服务
 rm -rf log/*